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Alhamdulillah,

Tahun 2022 semuanya bermula. Rezeki datang tanpa diduga. Dia Maha Baik, Dia Maha Pemberi Rezeki.

Menerima tawaran untuk ke Diploma Pengurusan Awam (DPA) pada awal Februari dan Alhamdulillah berjaya tamatkan kursus dalam tempoh 10 bulan pada Disember 2022. Dan seterusnya dilantik sebagai Pegawai Tadbir dan Diplomatik (PTD) di Pusat Pentadbiran Persekutuan Putrajaya. 

Awal tahun 2023, direzekikan untuk bertukar status ke isteri orang. Alhamdulillah. Persiapan pernikahan berjalan lancar, Allah mudahkan segalanya. Dari A hingga Z mostly diuruskan oleh si suami sebabnya si isteri ni stay nun jauh dari Kedah dan segala persiapan thru online saja. Tapi betullah kalau niat kita baik, inshaAllah semuanya dipermudahkan. Takde satu pun yang rasa terbeban. 

Hampir 10 bulan PJJ dengan suami, macam-macam perasaan datang, betullah PJJ ni untuk orang yang kuat saja. Berkat doa dan usaha, suami tercinta dapat tawaran kerja berdekatan Putrajaya. Sujud syukur tak terhingga, seksaan perasaan dah tamat. Alhamdulillah. Mungkin rezeki anak jugak untuk stay dekat dengan ayahnya.

Oh ya, pertengahan 2023, alhamdulillah direzekikan lagi dengan kehadiran zuriat pertama kami. Rezeki makin datang dalam pelbagai cara. Satu persatu Dia tunjuk keberkatan pernikahan ni. Semoga Baby Junior HH dalam kasih sayangNya. Tak sabar nak tunggu dia keluar.

Untuk tahun 2024, sedikit dugaan untuk kami sekeluraga, ayah disahkan strok awal Februari. Bermacam-macam rasa datang. Tak mudah untuk uruskan pesakit strok. Ayah dah start lupa tapi masih ingat nama anak-anak dan solat. Doakan ayah sihat seperti sebelum ni dan dapat jumpa cucu baru nanti.

How to Decide between Choices

Happy fasting and Ramadhan Kareem!

Ok, hari ni I nak share something beneficial. Actually, this is a summary of the coffee session I attended with my mentor of PDP 2021, called Mr. H.

ISSUE and PROBLEM DEFINITION: When we receive many jobs offers, how do we decide which one to choose?    Note:  this is the same with any situation where we have options to chose from eg to further study or not, to accept a scholarship or not, to marry or be single, to marry which person if have many choices.

TIPS I – Set Your Mental Model and Mindset

·         DO NOT PANIC. Stay calm and relaxed so that we can think well and rationally.  Jangan melatah. Respond, do not react. 

• THINK BACK TO YOUR GOALS AND OBJECTIVES.  Know our goals.  We must have our short term and long term goals. That is why it is always good to have written goals as then you can refer to something.  Life is important to leave it to chance.  Rezeki Allah tentukan. But we must usaha.

TIPS 2 – Ask Questions and Answer Your Questions

These are some short questions that we can use and answer so that we can think rationally and not panic. These questions are relevant if you are a PDP 2021 in the first 3 to 5 months of the programme and you have job offers.  After July 2021 or in December 2021, the questions may be different:

1.  What is/are your career objective(s) and goal(s) for the next 3 to 5 years(and if can go 10 years, even better)? Eg: want a good salary(ini pun kena define what is meant by the good), must be in the HR field, be at the top position, want to have a stress free life at home,
2. What is/are your goal(s) for 2021 Eg: have RM10k, secure a good job, exercise more, get permanent at placement place, get job in oil and gas, dapat PTD, tak kisah kerja apa, asalkan aku boleh kahwin, dapat kerja in Sabah, be able to Grad as PDP 2021
3. What is/are your objective(s) when you join the PDP? Eg: enlarge networking, end PDP successfully, rebuild self-confidence, have the name Ekuinas in my resume, start working, be better at English Communication, build a good resume
4. Which is the Best Option? Based on all the options I have now eg PDP, Job Offer A, Job Offer B, Job Offer C, which ones of the offers or options does not bring me closer to all of my goals above 1 to 3?  Eliminate those options.

TIPS 3 – Detailed Comparisons

Should I still have options and choices to make after the steps above, then do a detailed comparison. Since we are on Zoom, Mr H did a simple way to do Detailed Comparison,  For the more scientific and calculative way, we can do it later when we meet physically. 

       The Steps:

1.      List out up to 10 items in terms of what are the job criteria that you are looking for? 

Lain orang lain.  You will have your own criteria.  In our session, all who attended had different criteria.  The mistake most people make is to choose the one with the best pay and benefit.  That would be a mistake. Examples from our session: flexible working hours, utilize the skills and knowledge we have from uni, career development, can teach or train others), easy commuting, good environment, stable pay.

NOTE: Lain orang akan lain. You define your own criteria.

2.      Chose your Top 5 Criteria

3.      Arrange your Top 5 Criteria in order of Priority

4.      Check each of your options left or offers left against your list of criteria

5.      Chose the option that matches most of your criteria.

Dia bukan “Itu nampak macam best.  Tapi itu pun rasa macam best.” You measure your options against your criteria. Lain orang akan ada lain.

Mr H gave examples of what would be seen as good job offers that he declined in the last three years because it did not meet his criteria eg CEO of a public university in Malaysia, COO of a bank and COO of Pos Malaysia.  Those are posts that are higher rank and will pay more.  But Mr H has his goals and his criteria. 

"Making decision is not easy but it is not hard.  What is hard is to define your goals.  When you have defined your goals and values, it is not hard to make decisions.”

We will make wrong decisions.  We will make mistakes.  But that is how we learn.  If we do not make mistakes, we will never learn.

Jika ada masa, boleh baca artikel Mr H: https://www.getaran.my/artikel/kolum/1411/pentingnya-matlamat-dalam-kehidupan

I am back

Setelah hampir 4 tahun berdiam diri dari dunia blogging,  tarikh keramat 1 Februari 2021, I am back. Insha Allah, I am gonna restart my writing and sharing here as much as I can.

I bet everyone know about the current situation, the pandemic, the worst economic health, the political issues and all that. But I am pretty sure you guys do not know about what was happened to me for the last 3 years, aite?

Since, this is my blog, lets go. I am gonna share it here. But it is very dull and boring. I warn you!  

Making long story shorts, on 20th  February 2020 I just finished my degree. Alhamdulillah with honors and I was listed among the top 5 students under my department.To be frank. I am the top one. 

Currently, I can't wait for my graduation ceremony on the next month. Hopefully, the number of cases akan berkurang and able to make my parents proud seeing me on the stage. May miracle happens to fade all the viruses!

Next, what I did after I graduated???

Of course being a jobseeker! Submitted a lot job applications, did surveys and research on some position yang I applied. Attended many courses and re-update my resume.  And alhamdulillah within a week after I leave my alma mater, I got some phone calls for interviews. Both were on the same field but different institutions. So after considering all parts, I chose this one.  And on 1st March, I became a 'cikgu ganti' at one school near to my house. Not really lah. 20-30km jugak

Banyaklah kenangan di situ and I pun belajar banyak sangat perkara yang I sendiri tak sedar. Dah habis baru I perasan I improve a lot on certain matters. Since March until November, I became a replacement teacher. It was quite a long journey there.

And between the time, I got several interviews but most of them weren't my passion. Then, I rejected the offer. Ye lah, sampai bila nak buat benda yang kita tak suka kan? I know myself w...e..ll.. and I know my target.

In June last year, I started my foodie business. At first, i just want to share my cooking with the loved ones but then they suggested me to be serious in business. So I proceed je lah. Alhamdulillah, within 20 days my sales hit RM7k++. That was one of my best achievements in 2020.

After I betul betul habis jadi cikgu ganti, I got one email, said that I was selected to join ILTIZAM PDP 2021.

 During that time, I tengah nak start engine kereta sebab lepas keluar kedai beli barang.  Masa tu I menangis betul betul. Feeling blessed and very thankful. Balik rumah terus sujud syukur. Rasa bersyukur sebab terpilih , satu.  And one more, rasa bersyukur sebab rasa mudah sangat laluan hidup I. I tak tunggu lama untuk pergi ke next steps. The timeline is very clear. Setengah orang they take time to proceed to the next stages. But at the end, everyone will reach the destionation. Safely and happily. That's the aim right?

So, currently, I am the executive trainee under Ekuinas. Where is my placement company? Biarlah rahsia dulu for now. One fine day, I story more ok? 

End Of 2017

Assalamualaikum my readers and viewers . *cewaaahhh, acah macam femes sangat*


So, as we all know today is the last day of 2017. ooooohhh yeeeahhhh ! * sterk production*

Because of that , hari ni cik penputih *hahahah* nak rewind balik segala memori,tragedi dan kenangan pahit manis sepanjang tahun penuh erti nih.  Malas nak explain pepanjang sebab ini bukan paper final yang perlu digoreng secukup rasa, ahhh! Ini cuma halaman contengan sementara untuk diisi dengan idea, kenangan dan kisah diri yang tak seberapa saja.

So, let's check it out!!

27/1/2017 : plan dengan kanak-kanak ni nak hiking tengok puncak air terjun sri perigi

Ini puncaknya. Tapi tak de la puncak sangat. Kat bawah lagi ni cuma hampir ke puncak

Selfie mesti lah kena kan?

 Awal tahun 2017 ni, dapat berita yang agak sedih bila mana cikgu kesayangan semua disahkan hidap kanser usus. So, kitorang plan lah untuk melawat beliau. Dan alhamdulillah, sekarang cikgu dah sihat. :-)

24/3/2017: Plan bagai nak rak. Tapi rak patah. Ni lah satu2nya hero yang on. 

Muka2 pantang ajak selfie. :P

Ok. Ini adalah berita paling happy sepanjang tahun ni dan akan datang. Kehadiran baby maira untuk keluarga besar Tok Som dan Wan Lah.

12/5/2017: minggu study week yang gap hampr 3 minggu. so, kita celebrate dengan baby baru

Ini Aisha Humaira. Waktu ni 2 hari selepas dia dilahirkan :)

Haaa, time nih dia dah 5 bulan. 

Senyum dia memang kena buka mulut >_<

 Lepas habis final paper, pulanglah ke kampung. Alhamdulillah, sambut puasa dan raya dengan family.

24/6/2017: Ok, time ni tengah happy sebab dapat tahu result capai target dan hari nih jugak ada iftar untuk batch 96 smkas

Ramai tak ramai? On tak on? ahhahah. Ni belum semua datang lagi. Ignore the background. Find me :P

Ni hero2 96 smkas. 

29/6/2017 : raya tahun ni tak semua balik. Cuma tinggal adik ,kakak sulung,aku, mak dan ayah je :(

Tapi alhamdulillah, Allah datangkan kengkawan yang banyak akai ni untuk sambut syawal sesama.:)

3 hari raya dengan kengkawan Hahahah. Memory phone memang penuh dengan muka2 ni jelah

Alang2 dah berkumpul tu, singgah dulu kat sekolah jatuh bangun aku. Alhamdulillah, sekarang dah jadi manusia berakal.

Hai, muka kami lagi :P

Dekat masjid pun boleh , kan tin??

Geng nasyid sumbang. 

 Ok. habis je celebrate raya, minggu kedua, terus kena balik UIA, sebab iolls amik short sem. maklumlah, nak habis awal tapi subjek yang nak amik dah penuh. Hahahahah. kesian. So, sempat add satu je subjek. Banyak sangat masa free. Alang2 dah free tu, kita pusing2 tengok dunia sikit. Hihihi

12/8/2017 : Pulau pangkor. aman ni bab makan semua boleh. Makanan mentah pun dia boleh telan. Jk.

Nilah muka muka yang selalu ada dengan aku kalau bab berjalan.

Bulat tak muka aye??

Kalau ada sesiapa nak curi hati gadis2 ni, tolonglah jaga depa elok2. Kalau tak, jangan berani usik.Aku sayang depa ni.

Pulau P.A.N.G.K.O.R

Gamat laut. Omey tak aye?

Lepas habis short sem, terus dapat invitation ke wedding syakiroh , the kett. Hahaha, Alhamdulillah, selamat dah sorang.

26/8/2017: Salah satu cara untuk kumpulkan semua bala tentera 

Geng sik bergambar dengan penyannnnnntin antik angad

Ha, pilih. Ramai lagi single. :P . Ada satu bas lagi tertinggal. Depa lewat sikit.

Next, Ini first start for sem 4. Start je mid sem break, terus on.

14/ 10/2017: Ke kuantan ke kite??? Tengok muka sebelah tu. Bab berjalan mesti ada dia. Hahahah

Acah2 candid depan Teluk Chempedak.

Hi, is it me do you look for?? :P

Nak eratkan ukhuwah kan? Padahal tak kenyang pun. hahahah

Awak pandang saya kenapa??

We are "morning people". Hiking pukul 8 lebih. No hal. Hahhaha

Tengok tin, buat muka comey. Ini dekat  Bukit Panorama

Sungai Pandan ft me

Sumpah cantik wey sungai Pandan ni. Air jernih. Need to go .

Sebab semua orang suka amik shot macam ni. Why not kan?

ha,,, cafe ni namanya Loteng. Opposite dengan Teluk Chempedak tu

Ini chicken chop black pepper kenyang setahun. Nampak sikit tapi kenyang tuuuuu...Ma sha Allah.

Sayang busuk masam aii ni.

Habis comel lah tu.

Atas puncak Bukit Panorama.

Lepas ke Kuantan, balik Kedah. Tetiba ada seorang gadis pm ajak keluar. Kononnya nak reunion. Padahal, assignment bertimbun. Eh, kesah pulak. Untuk kengkawan, semua boleh.  Haaa, untung tak untung dapat kawan macam aku ni??  Tu pun ada lagi yang kutuk belakang. :(

18/10/2017 : Reunion tengok Tombiruo je pun

Soorylah, ulang gambar yang sama. Gambar lain tak tahu simpan dalam folder mana. Beratus ratus folder gambar saja. Hahahah. Ini pun amik yang ada dalam phone je.

Eheemm ehemm. Baru je minggu lepas, tup tup dah sampai Cameron Highland. Betullah, hawa ni seorang yang jenis suka berjalan . Hampa ajak ja, ceq on.

23/12/2017 : I dah kat Cameron walaupun study week

Paper lagi 3 hari tapi masih enjoy. No hal lah.

Bunga bukan sekuntum. Ye tahu. Tapi nak dapatkan yang macam sekuntum tu susah nak cari.

Muka barai tak tidur. Tup tup dah sampai sini.

So, this is my journey along 2017. Everything was great. Banyak suka dari duka. Alhamdulillah for this wonderful and blessing year.

And a short advise, not so advise but a short reminder to ponder:

Someone said to me:

" Hawa, seronok kan jadi kau. Happy je hidup. Macam tak ada masalah. Nak apa semua dapat. Semua orang sayang. Tapi aku? Beza giler doh hidup kita."

Guys, aku bukannya datang dari family yang kaya raya. Family aku biasa biasa ja. Tapi cunalah jadi luar biasa. Hidup biar berprnsip. Ada target. target yang mesti kau capai. Kita muda lagi. Jauh lagi nak jalan. Banyak benda nak hadap. Kalau awal awal dah start compare life dengan orang lain, dah start mengeluh, macam mana nak confront dengan segala macam next ujian nanti?

Stop comparing your life. And start living it.
There is no end to the comparison game.
There is an infinite number of categories upon which you can compare yourself… and an almost infinite number of people to compare yourself to. Once you start down that road, you will never, ever find an end.

Embrace yourself. Kalau bukan kita yang bahagiakan diri sendiri, siapa lagi? 

Its a fact yang semua orang hidup kat dunia ni ada problem, ada susah. Only the way you resolve it define who you are. Kalau penat, berehat. Tapi jangan give up. Jangan kejam dengan diri sendiri. 


2018 is a new journey to begin with,
Many more to learn, a lot of things to explore, more plans need to be planned.
But not forget, a newest intention, determination and inspiration for this 2018.



Pardon my english and style .  Nak tulis tapi idea tak nak datang. Main acah acah pulak. so, ini je lah yang boleh i shared sikit.

Hey, tommorow is 1st Jan. what's your wishlist?